However we may bemoan our distracted culture we cannot deny our almost universal need to connect with each other. The wonder of instant communication today allows us to keep in touch, especially in our use of the Internet. We are insatiable ‘connectors’, needing to share our story. This is surely a great gift, a richness in our humanity, wanting to relate and to know one another. The widespread and horrific abuse of this ‘connecting technology’ by the bullying, harassment or vilification of individuals should not make us forget the potential there is for good. "The Internet," Pope Francis said recently, "is a gift from God."
The vast possibility of modern digital devices to help build community, to draw us together, is understood by many users who enrich the Web with thought-provoking and uplifting sites or engaging blogs to nourish our spirit. We can access programmes which educate and entertain, which encourage and delight us, which may even help us to pray. The wonder of parents and grandparents being able to see their children face to face on Skype, keep in touch with them through Facebook or Twitter is a sheer delight. And what a blessing it is for people living alone or in isolated areas to be able to touch into different groups. 
But also, as the Pope pointed out, "The desire for digital connectivity can have the effect of isolating us from our neighbours and those closest to us." A recent survey in the UK showed that many people were more familiar with the names and faces of the celebrities they saw on their screens than with the people living on their street. We can, in fact, become so addicted to our computers, smart phones or tablets that genuine human encounters with the people around us wither away. And, when this happens, we too will wither.
How many young people lose their way when they shut themselves into their room with the computer for a companion? Has the screen in the corner (or more often in the centre) taking precedence over the neighbour who drops in, or the sick friend I know I should visit? We are constantly having to make a choice. Let it be a loving one. Before we press any button, switch on any device, we must first of all, each day, connect with the living God who waits for us with infinite patience.
The language he understands best of all is, according to St John of the Cross, the silent language of love. And we don’t need a computer or a phone for this.
Columban Sr Redempta Toomey is the Editor’s Assistant for 'The Far East' magazine in Ireland.